Jayden's Nook

I want to buy a new dadi!

2010-10-19T08:38:00.000+08:00

Dadi went to work and Jayden was extremely upset don't know for what reason. He cried for a very long time but I didn't bother to console him and waited for him to calm down before talking to him. He came to my working room and said to me while sobbing..

" I want to buy a new dadi. Dadi cannot go to work!"

After a few rounds of that I got pissed and went to my mac and googled for "MAN" images and I told him...

"OKAY, choose your dadi from here okay? See which one you want and you just click la. See can buy or not"

And he really did scroll and looked at every picture.

O.o

and then as he scroll lower, he can see man with blue face, purple face, funny and scarry faces, he clicked and clicked and went to type THOMAS TRAIN at the google search box.

Guess he think that his dadi is still the best and gave up searching.

:P

So buy new one?

2010-08-02T18:19:00.000+08:00

I was telling him the story about Hansel & Gretel the other night, and ...

Me:so... Hansel and Gretel reached home and say the papa. The papa was so happy that the kids came home and told them Your Stepmother died last week. No one will ever break us apart now! THE END...

Jayden: Oh....so the papa gotto go and buy a new step mother lor?

Me: O.o aiyoh not buy la.. go find la.

Jayden: find from where?

Me: errr just walk walk around see then like then boy friend girlfriend and get married then become step mother la.

Then....
Jayden: mami mami what are you doing?

Me: aiyoh I'm having headache la..going to die edi.

Jayden: Oh when mami die ohdi, dadi will go and buy a new stepmother for me and titi.

Me: O.o

His Art

2010-06-30T21:28:00.000+08:00

His first class he did this...

Bumble Bee

And his 2nd class he did this..

The theme was "Girls dress in fruit attire party".

He did it all by himself. I'm a proud mami :D

They are so attached to each other..

2010-06-25T16:35:00.000+08:00

Took this video while they are playing at at the playground. You can see that they love each other very much and how the kor kor entertains his lil brother. :)

Give him one of each alphabet and..

2010-06-01T17:50:00.002+08:00

he built these words. If he has the full set (cos some is missing like I, U and some others) i bet he can make more words from it.

Jayden, sometimes you really surprise us!

His First Arts And Craft Class

2010-06-01T17:43:00.002+08:00

Since his dadi says he is happy that his son played with paint on the floor, I took the opportunity to sign him up at the art class near our house. There, go and mess the centre up but not my house!

There were only 3 student including him in that centre cos it was weekday. I left him there for about 1.5 hours and he presented this to me. He told me "Mami, the teacher spoil the spoon!". hehe they used plastic spoon and also cloth peg wire to create the beetle. Although teacher helped him with this art, I'm happy. Cos, he messed the centre, not my house!

Mami Your Nen Nen is ...

2010-05-27T12:00:00.000+08:00

One day he just went :

JD: Mami, your nen nen is so big.
Me: Ah? hahhahaha then how about dadi?
Jd: Dadi nen nen is MEDIUM size.
Me: Medium? hahahhaha then yours leh
Jd: My nen nen and titi's nen nen is small size.

Muahahhahahahah the things he say can really make ppl pengsan. Well finally my size is the biggest...compared to small kids and a man!

NoooooooOOOOOOOOooooo Moments

2010-05-25T17:40:00.001+08:00

At the coffee Shop:

JD: Mami look!
Me: what whatt?
JD: FAT! *point at the woman right in front of our table*
Me: No!
JD: YES! THIS IS CALLED FAT!
Me: *whisper* NoooooOOOoooooooOOOooooo don't say that! oh my god....
JD: Yes, its
Me: Ok. Keep quiet. Don't say edi ah...
And the woman was looking for place, didnt hear him. Thank god..

JD: Mami u look!
Me: *oh no what again?*
JD: That koong kooong never brush teeth *pointing at the man that looks like this
Pic Source*
Me: aiyoh nooOOOoooooOOOo dun say like that.
Jd: he never brush teeth so his teeth all fall out edi.
Me: *cover his mouth and whispered to him* jayden, you cannot say like this right in front of ppl. Its very..
Jd: *mumble* rude.
Me: yes... if u wanna say then you whisper like me or you go into the car then only you tell okay?
Jd: *nod and whisper* he never brush his teeth..........
Me: *pengsan*

Mother's Day Card

2010-05-25T17:38:00.000+08:00

I saw people posted cards from the kids after they got home from school. So I thought ..eh.. maybe I have one too like every year? So I went and searched his bag and true enough, there was a card.

The outside..

and inside..

so I took a pic of the card and his dad came home. Of course I need to show off la. Then Jayden woke up and I pretended that I didn't know a thing about this card but I asked his dad to asked him if he has anything for mother's day. He quickly ran down to his school bag and searched for it. He came up and said "IT'S MISSING!" Then his dad passed the card to him and he quickly ran to me....

JD: Mami Mami.. I have something for you....
Me: Oh.. what is it? *SIBEH PANDAI ACTING ME....*
JD: It's a Mother's day card for you...
Me: Oh.. It's so nice. Thank you *kiss kiss*
JD: *Paiseh* ........Mami.....?
Me: Yeah babe?
JD: ..................... I need to sing a song AH! (Suddenly learnt the slang AH! from school but its damn hilarious, the way he used it.)
Me: Sing song AH!? Awwww..... okok you sing la..
JD: I LOVE YOU.............YOU LOVE ME..........WE ARE A HAPPY FAMILY.. WITH A GREAT BIG HUG *HUG* and a kiss *kiss* from me to you.. Won't you say you LOVE me TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... Happy Mother's day Mami..
Me: *sniff* Thank you baby....did teacher Chong asked you to sing this song?
JD: Y-E-S, YES!

I can say.. his teacher really did a good job. Preparing the card and also added something extra.. teaching and reminding them to sing a song to the mother. But today I asked one of the parent.. she said her son never sing to her :S So, did the teacher taught him or he sing himself? I really got no idea.

First Excursion

2010-05-20T09:39:00.003+08:00

He went on his first school excursion to Polar Ice Cream Factory and Beryls Chocolate Factory last week. At first when I told him, I thought that he would say NO, I don't want to go. That's his usual answer for everything if he is going alone. But, surprisingly he told me YES! This is his 3rd year in this school but his first excursion cos we felt that he is not ready last 2 years. This year, he is very ready.

He walked up to the buss and chose a place to sit. He just gave me a quick glimpse and refused to look at me for another picture. I went up to the bus to take his picture and he actually avoided me thinking that I went up to bring him down. :(

This is him when he got back rom the trip.

I must say he is growing so fast.

Look Mami, I'm Mr Bean!

2010-05-05T13:54:00.001+08:00

He was getting dressed for his playground day today and he said to me "Look mami! I am Mr Bean!".

He tucked in his t shirt and pulled his pants way too high and posed for me.

hahaahahha what else? Take picture lah!

wait....

2010-05-03T13:20:00.003+08:00

In the shopping mall after Jayden had a sarsi drink...

Me: Jayden do you want to go shee shee first ?

Jd: Wait.

Me: Wait what?

Jd: wait for the sarsi to go to the bum bum first.

Me: O_o

Too early to find out

2010-05-03T13:13:00.003+08:00

In the car...

Jd: Mami I want to hold your hand.

Me: Awww okay.... * hold hands with JD* baby.. next time when you're a big boy and you have a girlfriend, will you still hold mami's hand?

Jd: NOPE.

Dadi: Wahaahhahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahaha *choke Choke* hahhahahahahha *choke Choke* hahahhahahahahahhah

Me: O_o

*sigh* I know.. its the fact that THAT will happen in the future. But its too early to find out right? He is only 4 years old...

*siiiiiiiiiiggggggggggggggghhhhhh*

A visit to his classroom

2010-04-23T18:45:00.002+08:00

Normally his dadi will drive him to school and I will pick him up. So I hardly get to go into his classroom or even talk to his teacher. So sometimes I'll drive him to school and talk to the teacher about his progress. So one day while we're in his class, he showed me his artwork.

One by one.. he showed me. And he also showed me his friend's artwork. *very tiring to hear the names one by one*

And do you notice its very neat? He did it all himself.. surprise surprise. Ever since he is taught by Teacher Chong, he changed tremendously. I can say he adore this very strict teacher. (even his dadi is scared of her. Always telling me - Teacher Chong doesn't like her students to be late :S ) He really respect this teacher and he is extremely obedient in school. Even if I wave my hand and ask him to come to me, he wouldn't do so until teacher Chong say "Come Jayden" ,hold his hand and bring him to the gate and pass him to me.

His writting

2010-04-23T15:13:00.002+08:00

His teacher commented that he has problem with writting, ie holding pencil method, no strength to hold the pencil and also lack of confidence, we're trying to guide him whenever we can to encourage him to write. After a few days, he improved.

One day he just kept going in and out of my working room and then he told me.. mami look!

And he asked me to take pic of his writting. "Mami Hurry! Take picture!"

I think he is very proud of his own writting and being his mom, I am too very proud of him.

More kwai lowe than a kwai lowe

2010-04-13T12:58:00.002+08:00

He can't speak Cantonese and when he speaks he speaks worst slang than a kwai lowe. Haha
Tried to teach him simple cantonese like "por por lei hou mou? " as in how are you por por?" And he ended up asking "Por Por Lei hou mou? " As in por por you are very hairy. hahahaha

But he is better with Bahasa but still he speaks with a slang. That day he asked "where is dadi". I said " Dadi went to alor star" and he said " AYOR STAR". After a while it became AWOR STAR. Haha

eat, sleep, bath, pee and poo with

2010-03-24T14:14:00.002+08:00

his trains....

Sleeping with his new train Rosie and his fav Thomas

Sleeping on the table before dinner was served in the restaurant. He slept thru the dinner..:P

The only time he is not holding one is when he is in school.

I'm 4 this Sunday!

2010-03-17T14:00:00.003+08:00

Hi, Lo, In, Out, Hot and Cold

2009-12-18T19:22:00.002+08:00

Pic taken on 14th November 2009 In Aquaria.

Sometimes Jayden just make me go o.O with his words.

For example at the nail parlour and he saw the manicurist applying lotion on my hands.

Jayden: Mami.. cheh cheh use LOtion on your hand.
Me: Yeah, put lotion then smooth smooth and nice smell.
Jayden: I want to put HIGH-tion mami....
Manicurist: O.O
Me: Aiyoh.. where got HIGH TION Wan?
Jayden: Muahahhaha

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In the room one night:
Jayden: Mami Mami *mumbles* Indian. How about OUT-dian mami?
Me: *didn't hear properly* what did you say?
Jayden: Indian Indian. How about OUT-DIAN?
Me: O.o Where got OUTDIAN WAN?!
Jayden: *chuckles*

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Pass by Caltex Star Mart...
Me: Jayden you wanna eat Hot Dog or not?
Jayden: No Thanks. I want to eat Cold Dog.
Me: O.o . Okay I buy cold dog for you. You must eat ar....
Jayden: No No.No Cold dog wan. Only Got HOT dog!
Me: :)

Kutu Eat?

2009-12-07T18:07:00.003+08:00

Jayden was in Carrefour with my eldest sis while I was checking out some stuff outside. She told me the conversation goes like this:

Sis: Who eat this? *point at dog food*
Jayden: Dog eat
Sis: Then this one? *point at cat food*
Jayden: Cat eat
Sis: this one? *point at fish food*
Jayden : Fish eat. What is this boh boh? *point at tick spray*
Sis: This one for kutu.
Jayden: KUTU EAT???
Sis: Haha Kutu make the body itchy itchy so spray at the kutu and the kutu will die.
Jayden: oh.. kutu itchy itchy...

Haha poor fler must be thinking "wah kutu also got food being sold in the supermarket". hehe kids...

It's Holiday!

2009-12-03T17:07:00.001+08:00

So he spent most of his time in my office/working room. Colouring, painting, and doing some homework. By the time this school holiday end, maybe I can qualify as a tuition teacher :P

I also want to go Cinema

2009-11-18T17:32:00.002+08:00

I went for a movie last night and Jayden wanted to cry as he saw me leaving the house alone. So his dad told him that I went out to buy something and will be back very soon. And to my surprised, when I got home at 11pm he was up and waited for me. As soon as I stepped in he asked "Mami What you buy???". I said "errrr ..(and looked into my bag and found popcorn!) I bought Popcorn for you". He came over looked and said "hmmm i don't want popcorn"

So before sleep he asked me one more time:

JD: Mami where you go just now?
Me: Actually Mami went to Cinema to watch movie.
JD: I also want to watch movie.
Me: Then next time I bring you to cinema okay?
JD: I also want to go cinema.
Me: Okay.. promise you next time ok?
JD: Okay..

and he.. crawled up and took a few popcorn and popped into his mouth and went to bed.

he is getting more and more matured each day...:)

How Much Is This Mami?

2009-11-18T17:24:00.002+08:00

He love reading especially Hypermarts leaflet. He like to ask "How much is this?" and then expect you to give the answer. Normally we'd say "Dunno la. How much ah?" And he'd answer us correctly. He also likes to go around in the hypermarts and tell us "Mami this one is X dollar XX cents". Sometimes I'll ask him to read for me in the car, good way to keep him seated quietly ;)

The other day I was trying on a dress and he asked me "how much is this dress mami?" I said 'I am not sure, baby. Why not you go and ask the aunty (promoter)?" And he really took the dress out and asked "errr this one how much ? How much?" . hehehe he tickled everyone is that store that day.

His first concert

2009-11-09T18:52:00.002+08:00

I am super proud of him altho the dance step is very simple but still I am super proud of him! I never know he can follow instructions and dance so well.

Punished

2009-11-09T18:47:00.002+08:00

Yeap he got punished cos he pushed Justin down a few times. The day before he pushed him towards the table and make his lil bro hurt at the forehead with 2 big bungalows. So I was angry and I made him sit down on a chair in my working room. Of course he tried to run away a few times and got some good smacking. Hereyou can see him sitting on the floor, tried to run away again but too tired to run.. haha

I want Dadi tah Tah

2009-10-16T17:08:00.003+08:00

2 days ago, Jayden threw his Thomas train to the floor.

mami: Which hand throw?

JD: No No.. No throw Thomas

Dadi: jayden you threw Thomas. You better give mami your hand..

JD: No dadi. No throw (anymore)

mami: Which HAND! Give it to me now!

JD: this hand.. No Tah Tah! No throw Thomas..

Dadi: Okay. You want Dadi tah tah or Mami Tah Tah?

JD: Dadi tah tah..

Mami: then you want who to sayang you?

JD: I want Mami Sayang..

Mami: Awwwwww

Dadi: Ok come Dadi tah tah . Which hand?

JD: this hand...

Dadi *whack and miss and hit his own hand :S*

JD: Now mami sayang... *hugs mami*

Mami: U arrrrrrrr...*hugs*

Umm one question

2009-10-14T17:05:00.003+08:00

We're at 7-Eleven that day and Jayden chose Orange Twister. So after we paid, he said:

Jayden : Ummm One Question *raised hand*

Cashier: *looked at Jayden*

Jayden: You ( I ) want straw please?

Cashier: *stunned and point at the straws at the back of Jayden*

hehehe he must be thinking he is in school that he need to raise his hand before asking question. And he still got the You - Me/I mixed up *slap forehead* although he can talk so good now. Haha

I love you too too

2009-10-13T12:41:00.002+08:00

At school gate:

(Background voice): Bye Jayden. I love you! I love you too!!!

So I turned around and it was Paris. The girl he said he love. :S So I told him :

"Jayden go and say bye and say I love you also la.."

He walked over with head down.

"Bye Paris.. I love you too too....."

Super shy boy

I am Mowgli

2009-10-10T17:21:00.003+08:00

Yesterday Jayden came in my working room with his yellow underpants. He told me:

Jayden: Mami Mami! I am Mowgli! (cos the kiddo in the jungle book wore yellow pants like yellow underwear!)

Me: Haha You're Mowgli then what about me?

Jayden : You're SHORTIE!

Me: Not shortie la! SHANNNNNNTI.

Jayden: Shortie! *laugh and run away*

So before his bath I asked him to pose like Mowgli. This is his ala sexi mowgli

and another pose, with a slight smile...

And this is happy mowgli

Gosh! he cracks me up!

What are you talking about mum?

2009-10-05T13:39:00.004+08:00

*sigh*

He shouted as he was watching the cartoon. That bunny loves to shout and he love to shout together with her.

So I yelled from my working room.."Stop shouting ah. if not.. when i come out there you'll be sorry!"

and he answered me "what are you talking about mum?"

It made stoned for a while. That's the first time he act dumb and answered me back.

"What??? what you mean you don't understand what I am saying? You don't make me go there and make you understand what I am saying ah...." I replied

And he ... Laughed out loud.

Kek sei...

how about....5 cents!

2009-09-30T14:18:00.003+08:00

At the foodcourt next to the pay per ride machines:

Jayden: Mami, I want 50 cents please...

Me: ok, You go ask Ning Cheh Cheh la.

Jayden: Ning Cheh Cheh, I want 50 cents please?

Ning: Don't have 50 cents.

Jayden: Then how about 20 cents?

Ning: Also don't have.

Jayden: *frustrated* Then how about 10 cents?????

Ning: 10 Cents also don't have.

Jayden: Ah.. Then how about 5 cents!

Ning: Ah 5 cents got. Wait ah... * give him 5 cents*

Jayden: YAY!! 5 cents! (took the 5 cents and put into the machine) Cannot! Ning Cheh Cheh I want 50 cents!!!!!!

Can see that he is so frustrated asking for money to play the pay per ride. 5 cents also he wanna sapu. But the ride costs 50 cents each time. haha

Okay, Love mami more.

2009-09-16T12:00:00.000+08:00

Me: Jayden, do you love dadi more or love mami more?
Jaydee: hehe Love dadi more.
Me: *pretend to sob*
Jayden: hehe Okay. Love Mami more.

*sigh* definitely a dadi's boy. But just to make me happy he said "okay, love mami more". :P

Finally he complained

2009-09-15T17:02:00.002+08:00

With dadi and titi in Genting on Justin's bday

Jayden: mami.... I'm sad mami...
Me: Why? What happened?
Jayden: because.... dadi scold me.

This is the first time that he complaint. Kinda happy that he is finally complaining like other kids. I know, more headache coming...

err.. see you later

2009-09-02T16:07:00.002+08:00

Earlier in kids room, I saw Jayden shaking the "sarung".

JD: titi sleeping...
Me: Oh thanks Jayden. You're a good kor kor.
JD: *smile and continued to shake*

I went back to my working room and then he came hugging his elmo pillow.

JD: mami... mami.....*thinking* errr titi.........*thinking*
Me: why? what happened to titi?
Jd: errr titi.....
Me: *walked over to kids room and found Justin trying to wriggle out of the sarung-secure by safetypin. Trying to escape via the tiny gap) Oh Jayden you're trying to tell me titi woke up huh?
JD: titi wake up di..
Me: yeah. Thanks Jayden. You did great. Give me a high5 man!
JD: *high 5 and smile* errrrrr I see you later..
Me: err okay. bye

My son, seldom complain. Seldom tell. Only mind his own business. But can see he is slowing changing and care alot about his titi. And getting more and more mature in action and words. I see you later...that is the last thing I thought he will say. :)

Pisang Basah

2009-09-02T12:00:00.000+08:00

backdated...

Jayden: *peeling banana skin* P for Pisang.

Me: Clever boy! So you learn Pisang today?

Jayden: Pisang Basah!

Me: Basah? Come let me see

Oh yeah.. the banana is abit wet cos its overcooked.

Ah.. he knows....

2009-08-28T13:12:00.004+08:00

In toilet, while brushing teeth:
Me: Jayden Pui la.. Pui... don't drink the water okay?
JD: pui SPIT ah?
Me: err yeah SPIT.
JD: *spit*

Last Night:
Me: Jayden help mami find titi's chit chit
JD: Chit Chit PACIFIER?
Me: Oh yeah Pacifier.
JD: how about in kitchen?
Me: Oh probably hor?

Ah he knows....Never though that he know the actual words for pacifier and spit. Looks like i have underestimated my son. haha

Let's Build A Word!

2009-08-19T13:02:00.003+08:00

Let's build a word Mami! He said and he built this

Then he wanted to build B-O-O-K. But his Os are missing so he started to whine and said he want some Os for his B-O-O-K. So his dad told him "go and find something that looked like O". And he managed to find 2 dots from the middle part of some alphabets and used it as Os.

Then he cried and said "Not enough Z for P-I-Z-Z-A". And so he used...

An "N" And rotate it and used it to form Z.

Learnt it from Word World Cartoon in Disney Channel.Its really a good cartoon that teaches kids how to spell. I wonder when will the Msia education system is going to produce cartoons or a shows like this and teach Sejarah. Sure many people will pass. Hehe

But I have 2.....

2009-07-15T12:55:00.003+08:00

Last night we're goofying in Jayden's room. I carried and swung him around. Then he asked for 2nd time. Not easy to carry a 15kg guy and swing him around you know?

Jayden: mami please can I carry you? ( Can you carry me)

Me: Cannot la.. One time one day okay?

Jayden: 2 times please..

Me: Cannot la. My back pain edi.

Jayden: pls..... *start to kick*

Me: hmmmmm how many kukubird do you have?

Jayden: ONE!

Me: Then one kukubird means one day swing one time only okay? If got 2 kukubirds then swing 2 times. (i know it doesn't make any sense but then what the heck right? for fun of it!)

Jayden: But I have 2 kukuballs!

Me: Ohhhhhhhh *stoned think think faster!* No No Kukuballs not counted!

Jayden: I have 3 bumbums! *cheeky smile*

Me: hahhaha since when you have 3 bumbums?! Only count kukubird okay?

Jayden: hehe okay!

Mami can you spell SUN?

2009-07-13T19:50:00.003+08:00

Can you spell sun?

Can you spell cloud?

Can you spell this?

Can you spell that?

Don't try and trick him, he knows.

Today he tried to trick me to colour the sun for him. hehe cheeky lil fler!

Mami can you draw the sun? He drew very fine lines of the sun and I draw darker lines of the sun shining out.

I told him " You colour the sun okay? Mami gotto work"

Then he said "all done"

And I saw this:

He drew eyes, nose and mouth for the sun. Not bad eh?

What is....

2009-07-08T16:31:00.003+08:00

Jayden: What is bangun pagi?
Me: I don't know.
Jayden: Wake up. What is gosok gigi?
Me: Wash face.
Jayden: No. brush teeth. What is cuci muka?
Me: Dunno? Eat something:
Jayden: Wash face. What is makan loti?
Me: drink kopi.
Jayden: No. Eat bread.
Me: You eat bread in the morning meh?
Jayden: No eat egg. What is minum susu?
Me: drink milk lor...
Jayden: No drink MILO.
Me: Then you must say minum MILO. not minum susu.
Jayden: *irritated* what is pakai baju?
Me: Go school lor.
Jayden: Wear clothes! What is pergi sekolahhhh?
Me: sleep
Jayden: Go school! ......what is suka hati?
Me: Happy!
Jayden: *big smile* yes happy!

Oh its Penguin!

2009-07-08T13:52:00.002+08:00

In the car...

Me: Nahh Jayden you better sit properly. If not the policeman will catch you and put you in jail.
Jayden: Oh it's Penguin! Jail. Dowan.
Maid: Policeman la...
Jayden: Oh it's Penguin! *giggle*

Not the only time he said that. Whenever we mentioned policeman he'd say "Oh, It's Penguin". Why? I have no idea until I looked at a penguin pic. Ah......

Possible answer:
Black and White?
Big Belly?

Or maybe both. hehe

Same Same With Best Friend

2009-07-04T12:00:00.000+08:00

Nowadays he likes to go out dressing like this.

Cos he wanna look same same like his best friend, who is also his cousin Jeremy. And then he like to put his hand to the back. You know why?

Cos he need to hold his Thomas bag. Very heavy ler.. Jeremy also has one but he dind't carry it when he posed for me.

He will select which trains to bring out and he'd play with them while having dinner. And his best friend will play with his Pokemon toys.

Anything ler as long as sit quietly and let us eat our dinner peacefully. :)

Dadi's bday

2009-07-03T15:17:00.003+08:00

It was HL's bday last 24th June. Before the day came, Jayden started to play with some dough and he made this and sang birthday songs to me and also to HL.

yeap it was THAT hot in msia especially in my working room because I don't have an air cond in my working room (save cost!)

The night came and we went out to celebrate at this place called TREEHOUSE BISTRO in Damansara Utama. We're THE ONLY customer that night due to the weather. It was pouring that night.

He refused to take picture with anyone.

HL's order came. Carbonara!

And guess who finished it? He had his dinner at home before he came to this place you know?

After dinner we thought, hey what about a family pic?

Failed big time. He just won't look at the camera. That's until mami said.. " Don't make me angry. NOW LOOK AT THE CAMERA AND SMILE!"

See? Gotto force then only smile. Very fake smile but better than none! haha

After that we went home and surprised HL with a tiny cake. The cake shop forgot to give us a candle. So Jayden went and get a candle..

I love this picture...

Its the body gesture and the eye contact that tells me that they love each other so much.

And this is a video of Jayden singing the bday song. Listen to what he said carefully.

He sang a few times and got it right the 2nd time onwards. He was having fun singing and also blowing the candles that night. Guess when we're old and have kids, our kids will enjoy our bday more than ourselves. Haha

Who say leotards are for sissy?

2009-06-26T14:00:00.003+08:00

When I told his dad that he is going for gymnastic class, his dad's first reaction was "then need to wear leotards ah? mai look very sissy lor".

Pls la.. which part look sissy?

Anyway the most important thing is, he enjoyed his class.

Happy Father's Day Dadi!

2009-06-21T15:32:00.002+08:00

We're all watching tv when Jayden suddenly turn and said

"Happy Father's Day!"

Immediately I remember that usually the teacher will help them to prepare a card so I asked my maid to search his bag and true enough, we found a card.

He quickly took it from me and gave it to HL and said "Happy Father's day dadi...."

His dad's reaction?

He was smiling from ear to ear.

Yeah, the card is so pathetic. Obviously the teachers simply did it for the sake of doing it. But nevertheless, the purpose was to cheer the father up. And he's happy. So, okay la.

D - A - U - N

2009-06-17T12:00:00.000+08:00

Teacher Nawa told me this story...

(in playground)

Jayden: Teacher Nawa. What is this? (pointing at a tree)
T. Nawa: That is a tree.
Jayden: No. That is a Daun. D - A - U - N. Daun. Daun is leaf.
T. Nawa: Clever boy!

I don't like teacher...

2009-06-16T14:50:00.002+08:00

Teacher Nawa told me this story that day...

Jayden: I don't like teacher Nawa. I don't like teacher Mani. I don't like teacher Mala. I don't like teacher Hera.
T. Nawa: Why? Why you don't like me?
Jayden: because......always say drink water. If not go office.
T. Nawa:

Heart

2009-06-03T11:52:00.002+08:00

He took a piece of paper and scribbled this for me.

He told me "mami, this is a heart".

Not a perfect one but its good enough for his mami's eye.

I yike RED

2009-06-02T17:38:00.004+08:00

We've been trying to ask him to change his sandals cos we know its very dangerous to wear crocs (fake or original) while going up and down the escalator. But he is so attached to his fake crocs he refused to change it. So we gotto go to Giant and keep buying the same colour but in bigger sizes.

That day in Brands outlet, he was wearing his school shoes. And his fake crocs went missing. So I asked him to try on the blue one and he refused. In fact that was not the first time or the 2nd time. It was like so many times and he refused to try it.

That day I told him.

Me: I don't care. You need to buy a pair. One of your sandals are missing. So we better buy one for you. try blue!
Jayden : Don't Yike Blue!
Me: Try Silver
Jayden: Don't Yike!
Me: Try brown!
Jayden : Don't yike. I don't yike brown!
Me: Okay try red then!
Jayden: I yike red! *pick it up and put it on* Okay lets go tit! (tit = pay money)

So i pulled the straps that connected both the sandals and i let him wear it immediately and went to the cashier. our lil dude was walking so slow cos that was his first time wearing slip on slipper like this. Well, at least he accepted it. Red is abit sissy to me but then hes likes it so whatever la.........

Colouring

2009-05-19T18:26:00.002+08:00

Teacher Mani told me that this lil guy just love to walk around in class when its time to write and colour. But he will stay put when its oral reading time or singing. Guess he is bored with colouring and writting or he is just too playful. So I went and got him some watercolour and printed out some pictures for him to colour.

I have no idea why, he can just sit and colour and keep asking me to add different colours for him to paint. And this are two of his best art that night.

Hmmm did i really paint that?

Eyer! I did! I did! Nice or not jek???

Maybe he is bored in school. Afterall this is his 2nd year in that class and most probably they're doing the same thing they did last year. Hmmmmm

I want Don't Want Pampers jor

2009-05-13T18:07:00.003+08:00

At the playground near our house. He looked so happy just like how we feel now about him.

One night while dadidi was changing him for bed, he suddenly told his dad "I want don't want pampers jor". So his dadidi told him "Okay If you wanna shee shee you gotto tell us okay?"

So first night, he slept through the night.

And same on the second day.

And the third day he woke me up "Mami? You want shee shee or not?"

Then one week passed.

And then a few days more it'll be his 2nd week.

I'm am so proud of him. It was only a month ago that he can go to pee himself. And suddenly he want to go to bed without diaper.

Good job Jayden!

Oh it's coffee!

2009-05-13T18:02:00.002+08:00

Today we went to The Curve after I have picked him up from school. I fed Jayden and he requested for 100Plus. I said "Okay, you can have 100Plus if you're good boy and let me finish my lunch, then I will buy you 100Plus. Promise."

He reach out his pinky and said "Promise!"

So I slowly ate my curry mee and he sat at his chair and looked left, looked right and sang "Bring back bring back, bring back my body to me, to me...." haha he's funny.

Then he suddenly told me " Oh! I want shee shee Mami!"

Oh man.. the toilet was too far away and I don't wanna leave my maid alone with Justin far away from me.

So I quickly grab the nearly-empty plastic cup and brought him to a corner and asked him to pee.

While peeing he said to me " Oh mami look. It's Coffee!"

Pengsan! Cos the soya milk in the plastic cup + his pee looked like the Ice coffee that I have just ordered.

And yeap, he let me finished my lunch and I got him 100Plus as promised.

TiTi! Don't Suck Chit Chit!

2009-05-12T09:38:00.003+08:00

This picture was taken oin the 30th of April 2009. This date marked the last day that he sucked his pacifier. He brought it along and sucked it in the car that morning. And after he left for school, I hid the pacifier and that was the last time he sucked and saw it.

It's going to be 2 weeks since he saw the pacifier. For the first few days he'd ask for it. But then I will just pretend as if I cannot hear or couldn't understand what he was saying. By the fourth day, he didn't ask for it anymore.

Last night while bathing I asked him "Jayden, what happened to your chit chit?"

And he replied "jayden chit chit Blue colour. Jayden want chit chit....*think think* Jayden want don't want chit chit edi. TiTi, Don't suck chit chit!".

His art

2009-05-12T09:33:00.002+08:00

I managed to snap a pic of his artwork in school.

I think he did it with teacher's help. It's okay, cos he is only 3.

Go Office!

2009-05-07T14:33:00.000+08:00

Before sleep, I'll normally take the initiative to chat with Jayden to improve his communication skill. He is still not chatting like his peers. So one day I asked him:

Me: Jayden can you pretend to be mei mei?
Jayden: *pretend a blur look that looks like the girl I have mentioned*
Me: hahahhahah Okay Now you pretend to be JoJo.
Jayden: *pretend to be shocked like how the boy looked like*
me: hahahahaha Okay Okay now you pretend to be Paris.
Jayden: I want be teacher Mani.
Me: Okay go ahead.
Jayden: errm I want be teacher Hera (his principle)
Me: Okay.. how?
Jayden: Ek! Notty huh? Go Office!
Me: *surprised* hahahahahahaahahhahaha

The next day when I drop him off to his class I managed to meet up with teacher Mani. And I told her about him acting like teacher Hera. Apparently this lil boy of mine was sent to office a few times because he refused to write himself without Teacher Mani holding onto his hands. You see, last year he was the youngest when he joint the class and he was teacher Mani's pet student. Now that he is not the youngest, teacher mani gotto focus on the younger ones. They will ask him to sit in front of the principle and Voila! he can write by himself and even can colour the picture himself.

Jayden says: Oppssss now you know my secret in school

Hold Your Birdie

2009-05-04T14:51:00.002+08:00

It's been a month since Jayden is potty trained. I started to train him during the school holiday one week before his 3rd Birthday cos I see him 24 hours compared to time when he goes to school in the morning and only comes home at 11.30am.

It started with non-sleeping time for a week and he goes to nap with diaper. And then diaperless even during napping time. But he did woke up a few times soaked with urine but he got the idea after a few times. And he will wake up and tell me "Mami, I want Shee Shee", pee and go back to nap.

He used to ask me to help him cos he was so short and couldn't reach the toilet bowl. Then he started going to the toilet by himself by lifting one of his leg up and bend forward to pee in the toilet. After a month, he can stand and pee by himself. How come he can grow so tall in just a month? I really have no idea.

Now, he will announce to me "Mami! I want Shee Shee!" and I'll help him to remove his pants or help him to "search" for his birdie and he'll run to the toilet while saying.. "hold YOUR (MY) oWn birdie!" Hehe..

Oh how about going out time? Also diaperless but gotto stand by some plastic bag in our bag for the just-in-case moments *wink*

I can say training him when we're both ready (as in he understand what is happening and I'm being not so mental) make things easier for the two of us. Now I am just waiting for him to go to toilet himself (as in knowing how to stop announcing to me, needing me to remove his pants for him) to train him to go diaperless at night.

He ain't heavy...

2009-04-28T12:00:00.000+08:00

He's my brother!

I just love the way Jayden plays with Justin.

I love the way he calls him "AMBEE AH!!!"

Or how he'll ask me "Where's titi?" When I fetches him from his school.

And the way he bend over and kisses Justin.

And the way he'll share his fav trains with him, err except Gordon.

And also ask whether TiTi's coming to bed with him.

Or whether we're going to bath TiTi also after he had his bath.

And now, he even share his favourite pacifier with Justin.

And best of all, he'll bend over so that Justin can pull his hair and get all cheered up.

Note to Jayden:
Jayden boy, mami is so proud of you. Mami never thought that you can such a loving kor kor to your titi. Mami hope that you will stay so loving towards titi and won't fight (so much) when you guys are older. Love you Darling.

Some of his favourites...

2009-04-27T19:58:00.006+08:00

One of his fav train, Toby.

I love to see how he play with his trains.. so engrossed with them

And these are just a few of his train collections. His dadidi is really spoiling him. Each train costs about min Rm24.90 for the short ones and Rm34.90 for the long ones.

And finally a haircut

2009-04-12T17:36:00.001+08:00

Finally we brought him to the indian barber. Everytime we asked him "Jayden do you want a haircut?" he will say "I WANT DON'T WANT!". So that day dadidi wanted a haircut and so we brought him along. He had no idea that the Indian man is going to cut his hair until we placed the cloth around him and asked him to sit down. He sat on the chair and grumbled abit. Then he started to speak in some weird language. Haha

No idea what he was babbling about!

And tadaaaa.. new hairstyle...

Oh i miss his neat mushroom hair so much but the weather is killing us. So hot!

This is a boy??

2009-04-10T18:10:00.001+08:00

That day we went to pasar malam and my old neighbour saw me and asked "Wah you have one girl and one boy ah?" They thought Jayden was a girl because of his mushroom hair. And she asked "THIS IS A BOY???"

Okay he does look like a girl from far. But when he goes to school I'll put some hair gel on his hair like this.

Not bad right?

Seriously not bad right?

It's okay la. They can say whatever they want as long mami knows he is a boy and mami is always his biggest fan EVER!

It was a weird day...

2009-04-10T17:43:00.006+08:00

because all of a sudden he asked for his Thomas hat. He never like it when I put caps or hats on his head. Probably he saw some cartoon characters putting hat on its head and so he asked "where Thomas Hat?"

And you know what is even weirder? He even wore it out.

And what is even more weirder than that??

Posing and taking picture with it!

He's been avoiding me when he sees a camera but now he likes to pose and do funny faces and asked me to show him back the pictures.

Naughty?

2009-04-08T15:34:00.003+08:00

Thinking about something......with the cherry from our garden.

My maid laughed and told me that she teased Jayden and called him "Naughty boy!"

He replied "no........" and walked off.

And then he started running round and round the living hall and purposely jump on her lap and said

"THIS IS NAUGHTY!"

Aiyoh.. he was trying to explain to her what is naughty.

It was a perfect day.

2009-04-08T15:24:00.003+08:00

Last Sunday, he insisted to put this hat on. He never allow me to put anything on his head or on his body. Even in the class when they play dress up and pretend, he'll just stand, look and laugh. That day, he asked "Where Thomas hat?" And I gave it to him and he put it on and sat quietly while waiting for us to get ready to go out for our weekend outing.

Then, he started saying "Now, this is perfect".

Then I overheard him saying "beep Beep. Gordon coming. *park the train* PERFECT!" while playing with his fav train , Gordon.

While eating, he said "Yum. perfect!"

While peeing " YES! Perfect!"

Before he sleep "Okay, Perfect!" when I placed his Elmo pillow at the right spot.

Yeap, a perfect day it was.

A for Api...

2009-04-08T15:20:00.002+08:00

Cheese! *showing peace sign*

One night before sleeping, he told me.

Jayden: mami.. mami.. A for....
Me: Apple!
Jayden: A for Api.
Me: Oh BM! B untuk?
Jayden: B for Boya. C for Chawang. D for Daung. E for Emak!
Me: Wow! Clever boy!
Jayden: F For Foto. G........*thinking*....H.....*thinking*.......I for Ikan, J for JAM, K for KUCHING!
Me: WOW WOW! clever boy! Who taught you?
Jayden: Teacher Mani!

Didn't know he know BM too. :p

I carry you!

2009-04-08T15:15:00.003+08:00

Nowadays he talk more. And sometimes he will get mixed up.

For example he wanted me to carry him and he told me " I WANT CARRY YOU!"

Or

I help You! (obviously he wanted me to help him)

I Cut you! (asking me to help him cut his finger nails)

So we had fun teasing him and then he will laugh it off and then say it the correct way.

Twinkle Twinkle and 3 Little Monkeys

2009-04-02T13:38:00.002+08:00

His first time singing for me while I record it. Normally he would turn his face and run away. Taken in the car after while we're on our way home. You can see that he is in super good mood, probably it was Wednesday- Playground day!

Do you like.....

2009-03-31T11:09:00.002+08:00

Mami: Do you like Mami or Dadi?
Jayden: Mami!!!
Dadi: Jayden...Jayden do you like mami or dadi?
Jayden: Mami!
Dadi: Do you like Dadi or mami? (trying to twist the question and trick his son here..)
Jayden: Mami!
Dadi: :(
Mami: Muahahahahahahah

Mami 1 , Dadi 0

What is your problem?....

2009-03-30T17:56:00.002+08:00

Teacher Mani: Jayden Chan!! Come back here!
Jayden: Why? What Happened?!
Teacher Mani: Don't go there! Come back here!
Jayden: Why? What's wrong? What happened? What's your problem?
Teacher Mani : *stunned*

Comment from mami:
*hands up* Yeap. I'm the culprit! I said that to him. But I never expect him to say it to the teacher.....

Tim Kai ah???

2009-03-30T17:32:00.002+08:00

Wanted to get him new shoes...

Mami: Come Jayden. Come and try this one..
Jayden: Tim Kai ah??
Mami: because your shoe is too small for you edi..
Jayden: MM TAK! tim Kai Ah???

Sigh.. watched too much of this advertisement!

Pasa Samam

2009-03-30T17:30:00.001+08:00

Mami: Okay Jayden boy. If you finish you rice then you can go to Pasar Malam ok?
Jayden: *smile* I want go Pasa Samam!
Dadi: I want to go Pasa Samam!
Mami: I want to go Pasa Samam too!
Jayden: I want go Pasar Malam!

My 3rd Birthday

2009-03-26T12:48:00.002+08:00

It all started with mami and dadi singing Happy Birthday son to me after it turned 12am. Then I went to bed. When I woke up, mami said "Jayden hurry up. Need to go Shichida now! We're late!" So we went and when we got into the class, sensei wrote on the wall "HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAYDEN" and she asked everyone to sing Happy Birthday Song to me. Geeezz.. boy i was so shy! Why everyone say my name at the same time??? Then we got home and mami set up a mini pool for me, Jeremy kor kor and also Jasmine cheh cheh.

See how happy i am?

See I went swimming with my Thomas

Do you know what is the Theme of my birthday party?

See I can suck in my tummy!

This is the food that Mami, Ning and Jee Bor prepared for my party.

The cake...decorated with 2 pressie from Mami and Dadi. The blue one (Gordon) was my existing pressie when I was hospitalized last time. Yeap, it's Thomas again this year.

WAHHHH I WAS EXTREMELY HAPPY WHEN I SAW TOBY!

Then I blew the candle

And cut the cake. Can I have my TOBY NOW?

This is my family

I'm so into toby...

checking out toby left, right , up and down..

and totally forgot about the cake..

play and play and play....

My titi Justin enjoying his carrot

My Pressies! Thank you everyone!

And since I don't know how to play any games, mami said "Wanna go swim again?"

YAY!!! and Titi joined in this time..

We went for crabbing session in Klang that night...gramps came to join us. Yum Yum! Still holding onto Toby and Gordon both my fav now..

And at night...

This is me after we came back from dinner. I was so busy playing with my trains. Titi wanted to join too but he think that the tidmouth shed is yummy . so he took a bite

Night Night Trains..

Bukit Tinggi We Will Go...

2009-03-24T10:23:00.002+08:00

We went to this place called Bukit Tinggi last 28th Feb - 1st March 2009. Initially we're supposed to bring Koong Koong to A famosa Melaka to cheer him up cos he's a bit sad. But mami is a little upset because he rather go to his kungfu dinner rather than to spend time with us. So plan changed and we went to Bukit Tinggi instead.

That's me and my dadidi..

Looking at the swans..

Then boh boh and boh leh came...

Feeding the swans...

Can you see me? I refused to follow them so I stood there and cried so loud. But they still walk away. So bad!

See my tears are still on my face...waiting to eat our bbq buffet dinner..

We had dinner at the yellow canopi area..can you see yellow? I know Yellow. Yellow starts with Albert(alphabet) Y!

The next day we went to see the swans again..

One of the swans died. I think its this one..

Bye Swan! Swan starts with albert S! S for Swan!

This is my jeremy kor kor and jasmine cheh cheh..They (are) blow(ing) bubbles. B for Bubbles!

Me refusing to look at mami or the camera..I'm a big boy already you know?

My dadi helped me to blow oso..

Blow samo?? B for Blow!

And then we went to Japanese Garden. I was so tired I asked mami to carry me in titi's carrier.

I'm a big boy but sometimes I'm also a baby... hehe

I'm A Cow!

2009-03-18T10:04:00.000+08:00

2 years, 11 months, 26 days

Dadi was taking care of me and titi while mami was working at night. So I found this cow cover and I put it to my head. Dadi said "Faster Show Mamimi!" And i did! I said to her..

Mami! I'm a Cow! I'm a Cow!

Stayed in hospital

2009-03-10T16:53:00.003+08:00

On wednesday, I didn't go to school because mami couldn't wake up. She was busy attending to Kong Kong (brought koong koong to the hospital for check up and then to Bangsar hearscan to scan the heart - he is 63 but has a 45 yrs old man heart- very healthy but he always think that he is sick) and the next day Mami was busy in hospital because my dadi thought that he has appendics but actually he had stones in the kidney.

That day , my head felt so warm. Mami told me that I have fever. So the whole day she was sponging me and feeding me medicine. On Thursday, TiTi also had fever. I didn't recover and started to feel abit uneasy and i don't want to eat that much anymore. That night dadi and mami brought me to the hospital and doctor asked me to stay in the hospital but dadidi said that we can manage at home.

The next day, titi went to the hospital in the morning. Dadi stayed home with me. Doctor said titi should get better or he need to go back and stay in the hospital. And dadi and mami was at home whole day, feeding us medicine and try to ask us to eat. But we both couldn't swallow at all.

On sat morning, 5 am mami and ning cheh cheh rushed titi to the hospital. I don't know what happened because I was at home with dadi. Then dadi brought me to the hospital and I saw titi's hand was tied up and they poked something to his hand. He was sleeping or crying all the time.

Then i went home and I totally cannot eat anymore. I kept asking dadidi "where (is) mamimi? I want mamimi...." And then dadidi brought me to the hospital again. They ask me to sleep next to titi's bed. That night, the doctor and many nurses hold me tight and they poked my hand. So so pain and I screamed so loud. The doctor keep saying "Wah very strong ah this boy!" I keep asking them " I want to go out! I want mamimi! I go there!" pointing at the door. But they say cannot. :(

Dadidi was at home, taking my elmo pillow for me. Then i came out, dadidi was back with my elmo pillow and I slept.

I till cannot eat that much although they put medicine for me. The doctor said that I have Herpangina, ulcers all over the mouth. So painful, that's why i couldn't eat- not even my favourite Ice cream.

Then Mami forced me to eat and i did. Then I became stronger and better. Luckily there's Disney channel on the tele and they brought my favourite toys with me - Thomas

That day,doctor came and look at my mouth. She said I'm better and the ulcers are getting smaller so I can go home if i want to. So we all packed our bags and went home. That night, I still don't dare to suck my milk bottle and also my pacifier. And dadi gave me my medicine and persuade me to drink and I drank. Wah nen nen is so nice.

Then I asked mami "mami, what happened?" And mami said because I was sick and i cannot eat, so must stay in the hospital.The doctor Tuk TUk (poke) my hand to put the water so that I wont be dehydrated and can get well soon. And then I told mami " mami, I don't want tuk tuk. I want (to) go home.." And mami told me"Yeah babe..you're home now" and she kissed me and I went to sleep.

And....And.....And.....

2009-02-24T10:17:00.004+08:00

First it was "because" then it's "And"'s turn

He saw this picture and said "Jayden, sit down. And Kor kor. And Cheh Cheh....and Jayden....and Kor Kor ...And Cheh Cheh....And........" and it went on very long time.

Since we have moved nearer to Jeremy and Jasmine's house, they became closer.

Jayden sometimes will sit at the door and sing ...:

Cheh Cheh , Cheh Cheh where are you?
Cheh Cheh , Cheh Cheh I ....miss .....you.

Sweet eh?

Because...

2009-02-18T19:25:00.003+08:00

Last night he keep asking us to put on our shoes and said "Let's go!" But we didn't budge from our seat. Before sleep he was tossing and turning and finally said...

Jayden::: Oh Oh........Why Mami?....(asking me to ask him why he couldn't sleep)
Me: Oh why Jayden?
Jayden::: Because Mami...
Me: because?....
Jayden::: Because I want (to) go Pasar Malam. (his first time saying pasar malam)
Me: Oh that's why you asked us to put on our shoes eh?
Jayden::: Yes....
Me: What do you want to buy?
Jayden::: Buy Honey Dew....
Me: Some more?
Jayden::: Buy Longan...
Me: Woah longan..somemore?
Jayden::: Apples...
Me: What colour do you want to buy?
Jayden::: Red apples.
Me::S okay...Some more?
Jayden::: I want pak pak (asking me to pat him to sleep)
Me: Okay...

That is the longest conversation i had with Jayden...

and I can foresee many many because to come...

Our Daily Routine

2009-02-06T17:28:00.002+08:00

I think he's chubbier now....

Everyday I'll try to wake up early and get him ready to school. But sometimes I'm just tired to get up. Justin sometimes asked for milk in the middle of the night-twice!. I'll send Jayden to school and sometimes will drop by the wet market with Ning and Justin. When we reach home, I'll teach Ning what to cook or start my work (I design freelance at home now) or take care of Justin while my maid is busy with the housework.

Dad will pick Jayden up at 11.45am and send him to our new house. Dad will drop by everyday to see Jayden and play with Justin.

Jayden will get his homecooked lunch every weekday and then he'll go for a bath and then sleep. Most of the time he'll gobble down 8oz of milk before doozing off. Justin will get his bath and I'll nurse him and put him to nap also.

If the aircond is on, they will sleep longer. Otherwise 2 hours is the max I have to work without interruption. When they get up, Ning will take care of them while I continue with my work. Jayden will come in and keep pulling my hand asking me to "COME PLAY WITH ME......." Or "Mummy? Come! " Or " Mummy I want (to see) Thomas". So on and off I gotto go go out with him and slowly sneak back into the working room.

6 Oclock will be cooking time. I gotto monitor my maid cooking, she is still learning. Luckily she is smart and fast learner but sometimes she is too stubborn. Typical Cambodian maid. HL will come home at 7 plus and dinner is serve. We eat at home most of the time. Eating out is really expensive now that we have another mouth to feed.

Sometime we will go out to the supermkt or hypermkt to do our shopping. Sometimes we'll go to pasar malam or just laze at home.

Saturdays Jayden will attend his Shichida class. He love the class and he keep asking me everyday "IS Saturday???" or " I want sensei Tira". I never seen anyone that likes attending class so much!

Sundays will be a busy day for us. So far we've never stay at home on Sunday cos either we're busy buying things for the house, or visiting ppl for cny, or ppl coming over. It's just so havoc.

That's our daily routine.

Right now I just hope that my maid can learn as much as possible and everything to settle down. Our things are still not 100% unpacked. Sometimes its just so hard to find extra time to do some cleaning up. Sometimes when we have the mood to clean up but we don't have the energy. At night, my hands and legs will fall asleep faster than my brains. Haha

Since I'm working from home and taking care of my kids myself, I noticed that Jayden is much happier now. He talks more compared to last time and he can control his temper better than last time. Err thanks to all the smacking from Mamimi and Dadidi. He is healthier now (don't get sick so often) cos I ensure that he get his lunch and dinner and also sleep longer too. I guess that helps in building a stronger immune system. *touch wood*

Justin is growing very well. He is one level above the average weight but slightly shorter than he is supposed to be. Haha He is teething now.. you can see that cos he wants to bite everything..and esp when I nurse him it's REALLY PAINFUL. He adores his brother very much and want to join in and play with Jayden. Jayden also likes to share his toys with Justin but sometimes we gotto take it away-afraid that some screws or small parts will make him choke.

This year I hope to catch up on Jayden's and Justin's development and update more. So stay tuned, more to come!

His fav sentence...

2009-02-06T17:23:00.002+08:00

He's a super cheek boy I tell you! This is what he like to tell us when we say NO. We have a maid now, NING. He will go to her when we're about to smack him or when we asked Ning to bring the cane. He'll run to her and tell her MMAI! MMAI! Sometimes he'll be so manja to her and asked her to carry him. Sometimes he'll just say it for fun to tease Ning.

I help Mami..

2008-12-20T12:00:00.000+08:00

The other day I had fever viral for a week. So I didn't go to school and stayed at home with Mami, Titi and Jasmine Cheh Cheh. Although I'm sick, but I helped mami to take care of TiTi. Like this....

I look Like my Mami

2008-12-19T14:29:00.002+08:00

My mami say I look like her when she was young. Now I know where i got my nose and mouth from.

My New Chair...

2008-12-19T12:00:00.000+08:00

Mami and Dadi bought this chair for me. They said I can use this in our new house while I watch tv. I'm starting to like it already!

Don't Yike!

2008-12-19T11:24:00.000+08:00

Mami: Jayden good boy okay? Jayden go to school tomorrow and see Tacher Mani...
Jayden: MM AI teacher mani. Ai Sensei...
Mami: No..sensei is only on Saturdays. Tomorrow you see teacher Mani..then you play with friends..Then eat together...then bom bom...then sleep...then koong koong will bring you back home.
Jayden: MM ai teacher Mani. Ai Sensei.................Don't....Yike......Friends......
Mami: Ai la... Ai friends la. Play together ma..
Jayden: Don't yike.

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In the shop trying Thomas shoes.

Mami: Try this one Jayden *showed him rm89.90 shoes*
Jayden: try....try....(remove shoes and try Thomas shoes)
Mami: (in mind: so expensive.If go home then don't like edi how? better buy cheaper one) Try this one Jayden..*pass him the 69.90 thomas shoes)
Jayden: Wah..... try try....
Mami: *pass rm19.90 thomas slipper* How about this one?
Jayden: NO. Don't yike Put Back! Put Back!
Mami: Okay Okay...Then what you want?
Jayden: *look around* This one! *grab a Thomas cap and walk to the counter.*

Muahahahha He love the cap and the thomas t-shirt so much. But I kept asking him to pose nicely for me and he wanted to go watch his tele. So he kept telling me DON'T YIKE PICTURE!!!! I'm such an evil mum!

My Cheeky Lil Guy

2008-12-18T12:00:00.000+08:00

Me: What's your dadidi's name?
Jayden: Chan WAK MI! (very near to the real name)
Me: Good... What's your mamimi's name? Tan.....
Jayden: Tan....
Me: Tan What?
Jayden: TAN WHAT TWO.
Me: No.. Tan.....?
Jayden: TAN WHAT THREE. TAN WHAT FOUR. TAN WHAT FIVE!
Me: :S
Jayden: TAN WHAT ONE! (quite near but the middle one totally wrong...)

He's one very cheeky lil guy!

You're Right!

2008-12-17T17:47:00.000+08:00

Me: *cutting Persimmon*
Jayden: Meminon......Thank You sayang...
Me: Persimmon....and welcome sayang...
Jayden: Meninon..Welcome sayang...
Me: Perrrrrrsimmoooooon
Jayden: Peminon...
Me: Yeah Persimmon..
Jayden: You're right! You're right! You're right! You're Right!
Me: Okay Okay.. You're right!
Jayden : :D

I Love My TiTi

2008-12-04T22:53:00.004+08:00

Yes, I love my titi. When mami wants to bath my titi, I'll tell mamimi " I want wipe titi" and mami will say " Okay but becareful okay?"

One day mami was about to bath titi and I wanted to help as well.. then mami said "okay you come and bath too"...

See? My titi is so cute. I like to kiss my titi on his lips and mamimi and dadidi will say "EYERRRRRRRR!"

I Love Phonas!

2008-11-18T17:56:00.003+08:00

Yes I love Phonas. I used to love Awi but then My awi went missing in school one day. Then mami and dad bought me new awi.. but he doesn't look the same. Then I love Phonas. I love Phonas so much, I carry it with me everywhere I go. And Aunty Mott know that I love Phonas so much, she bought me many many Phonas Shirt from Australia. Thank You Aunty Mott!

Even my Titi Has a Phonas Shirt!

First Class Picture

2008-11-13T15:45:00.002+08:00

This is his first ever class picture. Look at him! haha I really cannot believe that he can actualy sit still to take a formal picture like this. You can even see a lil smile there.

But look at his eyes...he looks so sleepy and tired. Sigh.. I hope he can get through this phase fast and be a cheerie boy again.

Big Time, Love And Notty

2008-11-04T16:28:00.003+08:00

We're in Old town kopitiam when he decided to go on top of the table to reach for a spoon. Then he accidently knock over his dadi's kueh teow soup. So I quickly grab him and brought him to the toilet to wash his hands when he said..

Jayden: Pour..... Big Time!!!
Me: Yeah you pour dadidi's food. Who asked you to go up the table?
Jayden: :( Big time!

Either its BIG TIME = Big Problem or Big Time= Beat Time I'm not sure. Probably he's saying that its beating time, cos he knows that his dadidi will punish him by smacking his buttock later. :S

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I was working at home in front of the pc and he kept coming to pull my hand. I shouted at him and asked him to sit down in the room. He went in and he sat down. Then he came out again and started pulling my hand again.

Me: WHAT!!!
Jayden: *put his hand on under my chin* Mamimi, I love you. *run back to the room*
Me: :O

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Dad pick him up from school everyday and everyday without fail, dad will complain to me.

Dad: Aiyoh ..yr son ah... just now lie down on 7-11's floor. Refused to stand up. Ask me to buy vitagen, yakult and this sweet.
Jayden: Notty Boy!
Dad: Somemore you say Notty boy?
Jayden: Notty boy! :D
Dad: :#

Kek Sei Yan....

A Video For Kok Kor Kor

2008-11-03T17:00:00.000+08:00

Kok Kor Kor, My mami said you want to hear me talking. So she took this video for you.
This is me singing my favourite song.. "Salty" from Thomas and friends.

check out my mouth when I sing. Tee hee hee.

Pretty & Honey

2008-11-03T10:24:00.005+08:00

In 7-11 before Shichida class:
Me: (choosing coffee in chiller)
Jayden: Mamimi..... Pease? (holding mentos) Tit! Tit! (asking me to pay)
Me: Okay.. :) (since he said please without me asking him to do so gazzilion times) Let's go see your sensei now.

Walk side by side..

Jayden: *stop walking*
Me: why Jayden?
Jayden : *grin* Hi...Perrtttie
Me: What did u say?
Jayden: Hi Perrtie.............*Big Grin*
Me: Hi Pretty? where did u learn that?
Jayden: *laugh* and continued to walk
Me: :D

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At mum's house last night, Jayden was playing with Jeremy and suddenly he ran to me and said:
Jayden: Hi Honey!
Me: Huh? Honey?
Jayden: Hi Honey!!! bye!
Me: :O

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Rolling on the bed:
Jayden : I......Igloo (said it Eye Gloo)
Me: (about to correct him)
Jayden: I said... Igloo.. (EEEEE GLOOO)
ME: :#

I'm Super Benjol Boy!

2008-10-30T19:09:00.002+08:00

See... one night Mami and Dadi asked me to sleep. But I refused and roll roll on the bed and BOOM! I fell down and my head landed on the musical hook. That's why you can see a "C" on my benjol. Dadidi went and boil an egg and tried to massage my benjol. But then half way massaging, yolk started to drip! Mamimi asked him to take ice and massage me but Dadidi refused. Dadidi even massages my head with the egg without removing the shell at first! Sigh.. I know I'm a funny boy and I have a funny Dadidi. :)

Good Job Baby!

2008-10-30T15:22:00.003+08:00

We're in the car when I heard him saying "Good Job Baby!" And gave Justin a big wet kiss on the lips. We laughed and HL asked me what did Justin do?

Basically nothing, just being himself sitting on the baby car seat. And that, his kor kor praised him and gave him a kiss. :)

Jayden is so loving and adores his lil brother. I hope it stays this way even after Justin knows how to walk and know how to fight for toys *fingers crossed*

Cool...

2008-10-26T14:17:00.002+08:00

We went to hunt for tiles for our new house. And while we're in the showroom, I heard him saying this..

Hey! Look at that! Wow, Cool!

That's cool. Cos we don't know where he learnt that. Haha

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In The Car:

Mami: We're going to bring you to see monkeys okay? Feed monkeys, okay?
Jayden: I want elephant...
Mami and Dadi : *alamak* errr no ler.. we're going to see monkey only ok?
Jayden: Feed monkey...

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Before going to bed:

Jayden: Say Night Night Jayden...
Mami: Night Night Jayden. You say Night Night Mami?
Jayden: *smile* Night Night..................Dadidi
Mami: :( You don't wanna say night night mami?
Dadi: Night night Jayden. Say night night mami ok?
Jayden: Night Night......*smile* dadidi *Close eyes*

Because I Never Say Sorry

2008-10-14T11:48:00.002+08:00

Last Friday I didn't go to school because Dadidi woke up late. Everyone didn't sleep well because TiTi kept crying for milk in the middle of the night. Then Mamimi wanted to send me to school but her car broke down. So I end up being at home with TiTi and Mamimi alone. Mamimi supposed to work on that day but because TiTi and I are being very demanding, Mamimi ended up not working at all.

And then when mamimi refused to give in to my request, I started throwing things and started kick and lie down on the floor. Mamimi "Tah Tah" me and asked me to sit down until I say sorry. But I don't want to. So I sat on the floor and cry...cry... cry....

And since I don't have any toys with me, I started to do some houdini action and I ended up wearing my shirt like this.

And I still refused to say sorry. And I cried for 1 hour plus until my eyes are all swollen. Then Mami yelled "You don't wanna say sorry? Then go SLEEP!"

And I crawl to my elmo pillow while crying and Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Satu...Duya.....

2008-10-14T11:15:00.002+08:00

Satu...Duya...

He can now count 1-12 in English And 1-10 in Cantonese and BM. But his Cantonese and BM sounds kinda funny...

Yat...yee...sham...shei...AM...Luk...chaaaaat....Park.....Kau.....SHAP!

Satu..Duya...TIGA...AMPAT....YIMA....ANAM....TUJUK...Lapan....SHEMBILANG...SEPULUH!

Sometimes he will even count his own fingers and also he loves counting Titi's lil toes.

I want COMB (cut) hair!

2008-10-08T21:38:00.002+08:00

Mami said my hair is looking like a ball soon. So she brought me to comb (cut) hair. This is a very special comb hair place because they have a car and barney show too. The uncle cut my hair so fast like ZAP ZAP ZUP.

My dadi asking the uncle "faster come!"

Oh yeah.. i hate the cover so dadi took my shirt off when the uncle cut my hair.

When I looked up, I can see that my hair is shorter already! Then he let me ride on the car with the music and I like this place. Now I always tell my mami that I want to COMB (cut) hair!

30 Months Kor Kor!

2008-09-22T18:23:00.005+08:00

Yes, I turned 30 months (yesterday). But mami is busy eating, pumping milk, enjoying her massage session, she was abit late in posting this. Well, at least she posted. Normally she will just totally forget about it. :P

Loving Thomas
Suddenly I have shifted my attention from Henry to Thomas. All day I will ask mami to play Thomas video, Thomas and more Thomas. Aunt Su from Ozzie sent me and my TiTi so many Thomas things, like the hat I'm wearing up there. Thanks Aunty SU!

Loving TiTi

Every morning I will go to TiTi's room and say "Hi Baby....." and sometimes I will share my toys with him. But he doesn't know how to play yet...:(

Enjoying School.
Sometimes I will wake up in the middle of the night, singing and then I will tell my mami "I want school..." Koong Koong has been fetching me from school since mami gave birth. Today, I told koong koong "Thank you koong koong" and koong koong was so happy.

Mami's note: Jayden had his flu jab (syr polaramine) on the 19/9/2008

Playing with my TiTi

2008-09-22T13:08:00.002+08:00

Every morning I will run to my TiTi's room and say "Hi Baby.....".

Sometimes I will share my trains with him and put it on his chest.

Sometimes I will play train with him...

and sometimes I will use him as my train track.

But TiTi is always so sleepy...

I wonder when he can play with me...

MoonCake Festival

2008-09-21T14:14:00.005+08:00

This year, I played ~~blow candles~~ lantern with my Jasmine cheh cheh and Jeremy kor kor. Jee Boh Leh, Jee boh and Aunty Andrea(Jee Boh Leh's twin sister) came too. My Koong2 and Poh2 also came.But mamimi cannot come out from the house because she just gave birth to my TiTi.

I really enjoyed myself blowing candles and singing Happy Birthday song! Next year My TiTi can play lantern with me and we can blow real candles because his birthday is so near to Mooncake Festival!

This is my TiTi

2008-09-12T12:48:00.002+08:00

One night, my Boh Boh came and took me to her house. Then, she told me that my mami went to work. And then the next day, I went to hospital and saw her sitting on a bed. I miss her so much and wanted to jump on the bed with her. Then she showed me something...

She said this is my TiTi, Justin Boy.

Then, I got confused because baby is supposed to be in the tummy. How come it's out here?

So I said Sayang Baby and I accidently slap my TiTi's head and everyone got shocked. I got upset and ran out of the room and told my Boh Boh "Angry Baby, Yes!"

Then dadi and I went home. Mami stay in the hospital with TiTi. I miss my mami...